We get lots of questions like this. A lesbian marriage ceremony is no different to a heterosexual marriage ceremony!
The minimum that is required is exactly the same. You will need:
- Each other and proof of identity and date of birth – a birth certificate and passport will do.
- If you have been married before, you will need to prove that the marriage has been dissolved.
- Two witnesses.
- A registrar.
Then all you need to do is make a declaration with the help of the registrar and sign the marriage register. That’s it!
What else that happens is entirely up to you and we would love to help you plan and design your wedding day. There is no tradition that has built up around gay and lesbian weddings so you really are free to do what you want.
I thought you had to exchange rings too, are you sure that you don’t?
There is no legal requirement to exchange rings during the wedding ceremony. However, there are long traditions about exchanging rings and these are part of religious marriage ceremonies. I hope that helps.
I was surprised too Jane
It makes sense to me, but it would be a shame to have such a minimalistic wedding and deny all your friends and family a party!